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Sextortion vs Extortion: What Parents Need to Know About Online Threats

December 15, 20245 min read

In today’s increasingly digital world, online threats are becoming more sophisticated and widespread. Two such threats—sextortion and extortion—are often confused, but they are distinct in both their nature and the tactics used by perpetrators. In this blog post, we’ll explore the differences between these two dangerous practices and shed light on other similar threats that people may mistakenly confuse with them.

What is Extortion?


At its core, extortion is the act of obtaining something—usually money or property—through the use of threats or force. The threats involved in extortion can be physical, financial, or reputational in nature. In traditional extortion scenarios, a person might be coerced into giving up their valuables, paying a ransom, or performing a specific action under the threat of harm.
Common forms of extortion include:

  • Threatening physical harm to the victim or their loved ones.

  • Threatening to expose damaging or embarrassing information about the victim.

  • Blackmail, where sensitive secrets or illegal activities are used as leverage to extract money or services.

What is Sextortion?


Sextortion is a specific type of extortion that involves the use of explicit images or videos to blackmail the victim. The perpetrator typically threatens to release compromising photos or videos of the victim unless they provide something of value—usually money, additional explicit content, or sexual favors. Unlike traditional extortion, the primary focus of sextortion is the victim’s privacy and sexual content.
How sextortion typically unfolds:

  • The perpetrator convinces the victim (often through online relationships or social media platforms) to send explicit images or videos.

  • Once the victim has sent compromising material, the perpetrator threatens to share it publicly unless their demands are met.

  • The demands may vary, from asking for money to requesting additional explicit content or engaging in sexual acts.

Key Differences Between Sextortion and Extortion


While sextortion is technically a form of extortion, there are significant differences that set the two apart:

  • Focus on Sexual Content:
    Sextortion revolves around sexual exploitation, with explicit material being used as leverage.
    Extortion, on the other hand, can involve a wide range of threats—not necessarily related to sexual content.

  • Victim’s Consent:
    In sextortion, the victim often feels manipulated into sending explicit material, which they may regret later. The threat usually revolves around the exposure of these intimate materials.
    In general extortion, the victim may be coerced into complying with the perpetrator’s demands, but the exploitation may not always involve intimate content.

  • Online vs. Offline:
    Sextortion is predominantly an online crime, occurring through social media platforms, dating apps, or messaging services.
    Extortion can take place both online and offline, and the threats can range from physical violence to financial harm.

Other Similar Threats: Misunderstood and Overlapping Threats

There are other types of threats that share similarities with sextortion and extortion, leading to confusion among victims and the public. Let’s look at a few commonly mistaken threats:

1. Revenge Porn


Revenge porn refers to the non-consensual distribution of explicit images or videos with the intent to cause harm, embarrassment, or distress to the victim. Unlike sextortion, revenge porn typically doesn’t involve a demand for anything in return. However, both revenge porn and sextortion involve the unauthorized sharing of intimate material, which can result in significant emotional and psychological harm.
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  • Revenge porn is a one-time act of distribution, whereas sextortion involves ongoing threats and demands.

  • In revenge porn, the material is usually shared without the victim’s consent but not under the threat of further harm or coercion.

2. Blackmail


Blackmail is similar to extortion but can involve threats to expose personal, private, or illegal information about the victim to the public or a specific group unless demands are met. While extortion can include threats of physical violence or property damage, blackmail usually focuses on personal secrets or illegal activities.
Key differences:

  • Blackmail typically involves a threat to reveal damaging information, but extortion can also involve threats of violence or destruction, not just exposure.

  • Sextortion is a specific form of blackmail where the compromising material involves explicit content.

3. Doxxing


Doxxing is the act of publicly releasing private or personal information about someone, usually with the intent to harm their reputation or cause distress. This threat can sometimes overlap with extortion, particularly if the doxxing is used to coerce the victim into fulfilling a demand.
Key differences:

  • Doxxing focuses on exposing private personal information (such as home address or phone number), whereas extortion might involve a wider range of threats or physical harm.

  • Sextortion is specifically focused on sexual material, while doxxing involves general personal information that could lead to reputational harm or harassment.

4. Catfishing


Catfishing involves creating a fake online persona to deceive and manipulate someone, often with the intent of tricking the victim into revealing personal or sensitive information. In some cases, catfishing can lead to sextortion if the perpetrator tricks the victim into sending explicit content.
Key differences:

  • Catfishing is primarily about deception and creating fake identities, whereas sextortion is about exploiting real victims’ sexual content for financial or personal gain.

  • Sextortion tends to happen after a victim has shared intimate material, while catfishing occurs before any compromising material is exchanged.

Resources and Support Systems Available


While sextortion and extortion share similar tactics and methods, they are distinct in the type of threats and the nature of the content involved. Sextortion specifically targets individuals by exploiting sexual content, whereas extortion covers a broader spectrum of threats, from violence to reputational damage. Understanding these differences can help people better recognize and protect themselves from such threats.


If you or someone you know is a victim of sextortion or any form of online extortion, it's important to report it immediately. You are not alone, and resources and support systems are available to help you navigate this situation. For more information and tips on how to protect yourself and your loved ones from online threats,
follow us for updates and resources.


Matthew Holandez

Matt Holandez is the Chief Marketing Officer (CMO) of a leading digital marketing agency, bringing over 15 years of expertise in SEO, content strategy, paid advertising, and web development. As a visionary leader, Matt has driven successful marketing campaigns across automotive, dental, real estate, and e-commerce industries. Beyond digital marketing, Matt is deeply passionate about mental health, addiction awareness, human trafficking prevention, and youth literacy. His work extends beyond business, aiming to create positive change in communities through impactful storytelling and advocacy. A lifelong dog lover, he finds joy in their companionship and believes in the power of love, empathy, and resilience to shape a better world. When he's not optimizing websites or leading marketing strategies, you can find Matt hiking, creating music, or exploring new ways to empower brands and individuals alike.

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What Parents Need to Know About Online Threats

Sextortion vs Extortion: What Parents Need to Know About Online Threats

December 15, 20245 min read

In today’s increasingly digital world, online threats are becoming more sophisticated and widespread. Two such threats—sextortion and extortion—are often confused, but they are distinct in both their nature and the tactics used by perpetrators. In this blog post, we’ll explore the differences between these two dangerous practices and shed light on other similar threats that people may mistakenly confuse with them.

What is Extortion?


At its core, extortion is the act of obtaining something—usually money or property—through the use of threats or force. The threats involved in extortion can be physical, financial, or reputational in nature. In traditional extortion scenarios, a person might be coerced into giving up their valuables, paying a ransom, or performing a specific action under the threat of harm.
Common forms of extortion include:

  • Threatening physical harm to the victim or their loved ones.

  • Threatening to expose damaging or embarrassing information about the victim.

  • Blackmail, where sensitive secrets or illegal activities are used as leverage to extract money or services.

What is Sextortion?


Sextortion is a specific type of extortion that involves the use of explicit images or videos to blackmail the victim. The perpetrator typically threatens to release compromising photos or videos of the victim unless they provide something of value—usually money, additional explicit content, or sexual favors. Unlike traditional extortion, the primary focus of sextortion is the victim’s privacy and sexual content.
How sextortion typically unfolds:

  • The perpetrator convinces the victim (often through online relationships or social media platforms) to send explicit images or videos.

  • Once the victim has sent compromising material, the perpetrator threatens to share it publicly unless their demands are met.

  • The demands may vary, from asking for money to requesting additional explicit content or engaging in sexual acts.

Key Differences Between Sextortion and Extortion


While sextortion is technically a form of extortion, there are significant differences that set the two apart:

  • Focus on Sexual Content:
    Sextortion revolves around sexual exploitation, with explicit material being used as leverage.
    Extortion, on the other hand, can involve a wide range of threats—not necessarily related to sexual content.

  • Victim’s Consent:
    In sextortion, the victim often feels manipulated into sending explicit material, which they may regret later. The threat usually revolves around the exposure of these intimate materials.
    In general extortion, the victim may be coerced into complying with the perpetrator’s demands, but the exploitation may not always involve intimate content.

  • Online vs. Offline:
    Sextortion is predominantly an online crime, occurring through social media platforms, dating apps, or messaging services.
    Extortion can take place both online and offline, and the threats can range from physical violence to financial harm.

Other Similar Threats: Misunderstood and Overlapping Threats

There are other types of threats that share similarities with sextortion and extortion, leading to confusion among victims and the public. Let’s look at a few commonly mistaken threats:

1. Revenge Porn


Revenge porn refers to the non-consensual distribution of explicit images or videos with the intent to cause harm, embarrassment, or distress to the victim. Unlike sextortion, revenge porn typically doesn’t involve a demand for anything in return. However, both revenge porn and sextortion involve the unauthorized sharing of intimate material, which can result in significant emotional and psychological harm.
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  • Revenge porn is a one-time act of distribution, whereas sextortion involves ongoing threats and demands.

  • In revenge porn, the material is usually shared without the victim’s consent but not under the threat of further harm or coercion.

2. Blackmail


Blackmail is similar to extortion but can involve threats to expose personal, private, or illegal information about the victim to the public or a specific group unless demands are met. While extortion can include threats of physical violence or property damage, blackmail usually focuses on personal secrets or illegal activities.
Key differences:

  • Blackmail typically involves a threat to reveal damaging information, but extortion can also involve threats of violence or destruction, not just exposure.

  • Sextortion is a specific form of blackmail where the compromising material involves explicit content.

3. Doxxing


Doxxing is the act of publicly releasing private or personal information about someone, usually with the intent to harm their reputation or cause distress. This threat can sometimes overlap with extortion, particularly if the doxxing is used to coerce the victim into fulfilling a demand.
Key differences:

  • Doxxing focuses on exposing private personal information (such as home address or phone number), whereas extortion might involve a wider range of threats or physical harm.

  • Sextortion is specifically focused on sexual material, while doxxing involves general personal information that could lead to reputational harm or harassment.

4. Catfishing


Catfishing involves creating a fake online persona to deceive and manipulate someone, often with the intent of tricking the victim into revealing personal or sensitive information. In some cases, catfishing can lead to sextortion if the perpetrator tricks the victim into sending explicit content.
Key differences:

  • Catfishing is primarily about deception and creating fake identities, whereas sextortion is about exploiting real victims’ sexual content for financial or personal gain.

  • Sextortion tends to happen after a victim has shared intimate material, while catfishing occurs before any compromising material is exchanged.

Resources and Support Systems Available


While sextortion and extortion share similar tactics and methods, they are distinct in the type of threats and the nature of the content involved. Sextortion specifically targets individuals by exploiting sexual content, whereas extortion covers a broader spectrum of threats, from violence to reputational damage. Understanding these differences can help people better recognize and protect themselves from such threats.


If you or someone you know is a victim of sextortion or any form of online extortion, it's important to report it immediately. You are not alone, and resources and support systems are available to help you navigate this situation. For more information and tips on how to protect yourself and your loved ones from online threats,
follow us for updates and resources.


Matthew Holandez

Matt Holandez is the Chief Marketing Officer (CMO) of a leading digital marketing agency, bringing over 15 years of expertise in SEO, content strategy, paid advertising, and web development. As a visionary leader, Matt has driven successful marketing campaigns across automotive, dental, real estate, and e-commerce industries. Beyond digital marketing, Matt is deeply passionate about mental health, addiction awareness, human trafficking prevention, and youth literacy. His work extends beyond business, aiming to create positive change in communities through impactful storytelling and advocacy. A lifelong dog lover, he finds joy in their companionship and believes in the power of love, empathy, and resilience to shape a better world. When he's not optimizing websites or leading marketing strategies, you can find Matt hiking, creating music, or exploring new ways to empower brands and individuals alike.

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